đź“š Essential Baby Books
"What to Expect When You're Expecting" (and "The First Year" & "The Second Year")
These books are my Bibles. Seriously. If there’s a question you’ve Googled at 2 a.m. ("Is this weird, or is it just me?"), this book has an answer. Or five.
Why I Love It: - It’s like having an ultra-reliable, slightly nerdy but super supportive friend who calmly explains everything. - It breaks down each stage of pregnancy, postpartum, and your kiddo’s early years in bite-sized chunks—so you don’t have to read a whole chapter to figure out what to do when you sneeze-pee or when your baby’s going through yet another growth spurt. - The "First Year" and "Second Year" books cover the chaos of milestones, weird baby behaviors, and the "Is this normal?!" moments.
Warning: It’s so thorough that it might freak you out a little at first. But remember: not every possible symptom means disaster. Sometimes, it’s just gas.
Find them here: - What to Expect When You're Expecting - What to Expect the First Year - What to Expect the Second Year
"Cribsheet" by Emily Oster
This book is like a warm hug for your anxious brain and a no-nonsense pep talk at the same time. Emily Oster takes all the messy, conflicting parenting advice and breaks it down with data (but in a fun way—not the boring science class way).
Why I Love It: - She’s hilarious and real—no preachy vibes here. - Every "hot take" you’ve heard from relatives ("Co-sleeping is dangerous!" vs. "Co-sleeping saved my life!")? Oster lays out the actual stats and lets you decide what makes sense. - There’s no shame, no judgment—just facts, options, and the reassurance that you’re already doing great.
Bonus: This is a great book to hand your partner when they’re asking "but why are we doing this again?"
Find it here: - Cribsheet
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"Baby Sign Language Made Easy" by Lane Rebelo
This book saved my sanity when my baby decided she was done with non-verbal communication but couldn’t quite speak yet. Baby sign language bridges that frustrating gap, and it’s also the cutest thing ever.
Why I Love It: - It gives you simple, easy-to-learn signs that cover everyday stuff like "milk," "more," "all done," and "help." - The illustrations make it easy to understand, even if you have the attention span of a sleep-deprived parent (been there). - The moment your baby signs "thank you" or "I love you"? Pure magic.
Find it here: - Baby Sign Language Made Easy
These books made me feel like I had a roadmap (and sometimes a lifeboat) through the overwhelming world of parenting. I hope they do the same for you—and if you ever need a pep talk, you know where to find me!